Discipline and Positive Reinforcement
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The fundamental rule for all discipline problems is encouraging good behavior instead of punishing bad behavior. It's a tried and tested method that rewards work better than punishments.
Sure, it might work for you for a little while, but then you find your children laughing at you every time you say 'one more time and I'll (insert child disciplinary method)'. Well, you aren't the first parent to experience this and not only does it ruin consistency, it creates a negative environment in the home.
You can't afford to neglect child discipline; but punishment tactics should be avoided as far as possible; they don't work. Try a reward system instead. Rewards don't have to be tangible; a nod of approval, a word of praise and a warm hug can work wonders. You can encourage positive children's behavior by positive reinforcement. It makes you and your child feel good. And, it saves time on the yelling.
Here are some parenting tips for establishing a reward system:
1. Both parents must sit down and formulate an action plan. Communication is the keyword here. Make a list of child behavior actions and rewards. For example, you can set a reward for cleaning up the bedroom without having to be reminded.
2. The next step is to sit down with your children, if they are old enough, and explain the system. Remember to engage older children in this type of routine change. It will make it run smoothly and avoid any child behavior problems. If they feel they are contributing to the household decision making process they will be more willing to cooperate. Younger children listen to older siblings more than they obey orders from parents. They are the second-rung management, you see.
3. Follow through and keep a record. Keeping track of a lot of activities can be hard to do. Use the chart to keep track of where each child stands. This is also a visual reinforcement.
Following these three steps will help you a great deal in putting up an effective and rewarding system in your home. By rewarding good child behavior, you set a positive foundation for self-esteem. It is the best way to accomplish child discipline tasks.
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More information on how to solve children's behavioral problems can be found on Dr. Noel Swanson's website, which is all about correcting Child Behavior Problems. Make sure you get his FREE newsletter and 1 hour audio too.
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