Stop Bad Behavior! Use The Wheel
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Say goodbye to anger with the wheel, because you child helps set it up. This is really important because once your child has been invited to participate in choosing the consequences, he/she will have an investment in the process.
Sometimes it's almost impossible not to get angry with our children....they can drive you crazy. And it happens with grandchildren too! Yelling doesn't help and often makes matters worse. All parents would love a simple way to change their children's irritating behaviors.
Have you spanked your child today? Spanking is commonplace in the United States and in fact around the world. It's estimated that 66% of mothers spank their children under 6 at least three times a week. Sometimes it's out of frustration and not knowing what else to do.
Yelling at children simply doesn't work. Punishment seemed to cause more adverse effects and children and parents get even more angry with each other. Another solution needed to be found. A system that awarded good behavior seemed to work best. Julie Butler called it the Better Behavior Wheel.
When you recognize good behavior and reward it, different results occur. "David...it's 8:15...you haven't started the dishes yet. I'm afraid we'll have to spin the wheel." "But Mom..." "I'm sorry, dear. It's not really up to me. Those are the rules we agreed upon. Gee, I hope you don't land on a really bad consequence."
Julie's children have nor been sent to their rooms for over four years...all because of the wheel. David a Laura are in their teens and have turned into wonderful children...thanks to the wheel.
You'll find that conflict resolution and child behavior management becomes much easier to deal with. Families that use the wheel report dramatic changes in their households. Hang the wheel on the kitchen wall and see immediate change in you childrens' behavior.
Kids need to know that parents are fair. It's east with the Better Behavior Wheel. You get their input when you select the consequences to place on the wheel.
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