Create the Life You Really Want With The Law of Attraction
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by: ColinJoss
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As anybody who has lived and acknowledged the role that the Laws of Attraction have played in their lives, you will have formed your own theories or beliefs, either consciously or unconsciously, on what works or does not work. There are numerous psychologists and specialists who can take you through the subject, there are tomes written on the subject and then we all have mothers, teachers and friends who teach us about the Laws of Attraction - each in their own way. All this tends to get rather overwhelming and confusing and so we GO through life often not acknowledging the Laws of Attraction and the role that they play in our daily successes and failures, big and small.
Having said that most of us just 'go' through life, it is important to acknowledge the Laws of Attraction in our lives for this very acknowledgement would make us more aware of them and make us aware that proper leverage of the same would help us gain a tremendous control of our lives and that ubiquitous quality that has come to be known as 'Karma'.
You too can become more in control of the Karma that you will experience. If you have ever read a self help book or attended such a seminar then you have heard many of them already. The key aspect you need to take away from it all though is to visualize what you want to see happen to you. If you are honest with yourself about the direction that you want your life to take it is much easier. Too many people don't have a clue where they are headed though. It does take time to adjust your behaviors for this to take place. Yet in time it will just be a part of who you are. It is this positive energy about your life that is going to attract good luck your way.
When it comes to the Laws of Attraction, what you like is what you will attract. So if you focus on what you really want, you can make it so. This is going to allow you to venture on the path of life that you really want to have for yourself. There are several steps you will need to follow in order to make this happen:
1. Make the steps you need to take from here to reach your goal as clear as possible.
The big question that many people as though is how you get it - where does it come from? That is up to you and to the amount of effort you put into planning. It is important to understand that things aren't just going to happen for you. There has to be plenty of effort on your part. If you find a barrier in your path then you evaluate the situation and you continue to move forward. You have to use all of your energy to get to the final point of your goal. Don't underestimate how powerful the mind is when it comes to determining what will take place for your life. Take the time to really concentrate on what you want and it can happen.
If you aren't happy with your current life, then change it. You have to decide you want to do it. Then you also have to be willing to make those changes happen. Pay attention to where you are and where you want to be so you can fill in that space between the two of them.
2.You should be a 100% responsible for your life.
When you take full responsibility for your life, you can guide it along the path you want and you can choose your life experiences. Only then will you stop being and seeing yourself as a victim of your circumstances. The downside of this is that with you steering the course of your life, you also have to face the fact that you are completely responsible for the 'downs' in life as well. However, if you look at this positively, you can learn from these 'downs' and learn how to steer clear of them.
Accepting full and complete responsibility for everything in your life is going to take time to achieve. You will have to continue to work to modify your behaviors that relate to this. Yet once you do, it will unlock many things for you in a positive way. You will have complete control over your life and you will often find you develop more self confidence as a result of it.
3.Believe that you have the power to control your life
You don't need to know HOW it will work, you just have to believe you will get it. As the Bible says Faith Can Move Mountains.
It is the ability to really stay focused on the positive things that do take place that are going to turn things around for you. Some people can always find good in a situation and others can always find bad in it. You want to be on the side that is creating positive energy instead of negative energy in your life. You can decide to take control of your life and move forward or to continue feeling like things are out of your control and live in fear.
Joe Vitale says in his book, The Attractor Factor, stay open to what your gut's telling you and then take action on what it's telling you. This kind of action is called "inspired action". Gut feeling is most often a positive energy that would lead you along the right path. Gut feeling is most evident in the invisible ties that bind a mother and her offspring. These are the ties that intuitively tell a mother when she needs to worry about her offspring and when there is no need to fear despite outward signs.
4. Make sure you take a close look at the big picture.
5. Get rid of all those negative thoughts.
5.Don't let negative energies like fear and worry distract you
Fears, worries and doubts are negative energies that would sap your energy and side track you. How often do the 'what if's' sneak in and slow us down. It then requires a tremendous amount of positive energy to get us back on track. Worse still, the additional energy required is often so daunting as to cause us to quit altogether.
It is unreal and utopic to expect that we can wear blinkers and not be faced with fears and worries and doubts. These will sneak in from the most unexpected quarters and at the most unexpected times. Don't waste energy blocking them out. Rather surround yourself with the positive energy of friends, family, support group who share your goal. Their positive energy, combined with yours will help you to face these fears and doubts and still forge ahead.
6. Always know what you want and stay focused on it.
You need a final step to achieve your goal. As laborious as setting a goal and focusing on it with positive energy and being open to achieving your goal may seem, your goal is not just going to drop into your lap one morning. You need to stay focused. It is the easiest and most subtle thing in the world to get side tracked or de-focused by other less important things and events and energies. A dogged approach with you eye clearly on the goal is the final boost that will get you there. Creating a Focus Board that you look at every morning could help you stay focused. Organizations often do this by creating a Mission and Vision Statement. State your goal clearly at the top. Under it in smaller letters, list out the stepping stones you need to take to get you there. At the bottom state your goal in Bold. Cross out the stepping stones as you achieve each one. This will not only help you focus on your ultimate goal, but will also help you focus on the next intermediate goal you need to achieve en route to you final goal. As distant as your final goal may seem on some 'down' days, the crossed out stepping stones will help boost your morale and flood you with positive energy.
One way to help you do so is to create a focus board. You need to check on it every single day. Think about what your mission is as well as your vision. These should be short summaries of what you plan to achieve. Make sure you write down your goal at the very top of the paper. Next you need to list every step you are going to take in order to reach that goal. When you reach the bottom write your goal again, this time in very big letters. This is going to help you to break down your goal into steps you can easily manage. When you feel like your goal is too far away you can look at the steps in the process and see just how far you have come on the road to reach it.
Try and make your Focus Board a daily ritual for in following rituals comes a security from habit.
At first it may be hard for you to remember to look at your focus board daily. However, in time it will become very routine for you. Use the Laws of Attraction to help you achieve all you want in your life. If you are willing to work hard to be positive, then you can get the right type of energy in our life to make it all happen.
Taking these steps will help you be the driver of your life. Soon these steps will become automatic. Focusing on your achievements will fill you with positive energy and will attract positive energy to you. Soon the whole process will change from ponderous and laborious to FUN which in turn will attract its own positive energy and get you there faster.
About the Author
Colin Joss is the author of the hit law of attraction ebook Inspired Attraction. To find out how people just like you - and two stars of The Secret - use the law of attraction in their lives check out http://www.InspiredAttraction.com
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