Does it Feel like WORK Meeting Women? - Part I
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by: VinDiCarlo
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Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?
And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?
READ ON if you answered YES those questions.
In fact, dating game can be quite frustrating.
Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")
Being not "extroverted" by nature can be pretty exhausting.
... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.
I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.
Before I started to teach myself about pick-up, and then found myself being mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
I would have to sit down and rest!
Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.
I'd go home and be absolutely DEAD
... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!
That things makes any sense???
And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.
It is just like I am having an overtime in my full-time job!
The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).
I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym
I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.
If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.
About the Author
Vin DiCarlo is a professional dating guru, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.
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