How to Flirt With Women -- 3 Types of Flirting
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There are many ways to flirt with girls, but they all fall into three main categories.
You can say something flirty in a proactive manner.
Alternatively, you can appear to be much more spontaneous by waiting for her to say something that you are ready for, and then shooting back a flirty response that takes them by surprise.
You can also do a two-step process. First, bait them into saying something that triggers one of your preselected banter lines. Then wait for their response. Then give them the line.
Here are some examples of each:
TAKING THE INITIATIVE: Call her a name jokingly. Look at her funny. Be a little cocky. Active flirting is fun, but it's a little more risky early on in an encounter. It puts your intentions "out there", so you have to be pretty sure of the situation to engage in proactive flirting.
TRIGGER BANTER: Trigger banter is basically this: you wait for a situation to happen. For instance, she could say or do something. then you deliver a flirty line that you've already prepared for situations like this. You can also just respond to her spontaneously. But it's easier to be prepared. Here's an example. Suppose she bends down to tie her shoe near you. You could say "Oh, you don't have to bow down before me like that. There are other ways to show your appreciation [smile]". The downside is that she doesn't always say or do things that match your pre-planned responses.
TWO-PART BANTER: You can deliver lines that look spontaneous, but which are actually set up. You simply take one of your lines from the previous category, and create the situation that triggers the line. How migh that look? Well, suppose whenever a woman asks you what kind of car you drive, you have this funny routine about some crazy car that no one would ever drive. Instead of waiting for her to ask about your car, you could mention off-hand that your car needs to go into the shop or something. She should bite. If not, keep trying to bait her. And you can do similar things for all your pre-planned banter. If you have a lot of passive banter prepared for many situations, this is a surefire way to be able to show off your highly advanced flirting skills.
So those are three ways to flirt. Did you find them interesting? All three methods are discussed in much more detail in the book "Flirting Deconstructed".
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